A bunch of useless crap
Published on September 15, 2005 By MasonM In Blogging
The past few days I have been in a mood. I've been railing internally about my situation. I can't walk properly, which is something that was previously a natural thing that required no thought or effort, I'm living in someone else's house without even my own room, and I'm making far less money than I've made in my entire adult life. and I'm in pain constantly.

So I've been more or less pi**ed off.

After work last night I took a 30 mile ride just to burn off some tension and to avoid going home. The air was unusually cool and dry and the ride felt pretty good. Very good actually.

I got to thinking about the things that had me uptight. Ok, things could be better. But they could be a lot worse, too. I coulda been killed in the car wreck. I coulda been crippled to the point of never walking again at all. I coulda been exactly in the shape I was with no place to go or no-one to take care of me. I coulda never had the wreck, kept on going like I was, and died in a few years of a heart attack because of poor diet and lack of exercise.

I coulda never gotten back into riding a bicycle again. I coulda never rediscovered the sheer joy and freedom of pedaling a bike down the road in the great outdoors.

In some really cosmic twisted way, maybe the wreck was the best thing that ever happened to me. Life is good.

Comments
on Sep 15, 2005
Sometimes we don't see the plan God has for us. Sometimes we're blind to some of the things we should be grateful for in our lives. It's good to know how good you've got it. This alone makes everything worthwhile and anything else unimportant.

Believe me when I say that everything will get better for you. Just keep on believing in yourself. And what a ride that must have been! I give you credit M, you get on that bike and ride and ride, even with the pain you're in. Your energy and determination is boundless!
on Sep 15, 2005
Thanks for the kind words serenity. The riding actually helps reduce the pain. I have to admit I'm kinda proud of myself considering a couple of months ago i could barely ride a mile or so.
on Sep 15, 2005
In some really cosmic twisted way, maybe the wreck was the best thing that ever happened to me. Life is good.

It sometimes takes a wise man to regonizes when he's received a blessing. May good fortune ensue.
on Sep 15, 2005
Thanks
on Sep 15, 2005
Nice article. As much as your situation frustrates you, it sounds like you are determined not to let it bring you down.
on Sep 16, 2005

Sometimes we don't see the plan God has for us.


Ya see, I don't mind that God has a plan for us. Would it be to much to ask that he let us in on it from time to time?
on Sep 16, 2005
That would spoil the surprise.
on Sep 17, 2005
That would spoil the surprise.


Not "all" the time, just every once in a while.
on Sep 17, 2005
Thanks for writing about your thoughts and feelings Mason.
I too have been feeling P****off the last week or so..........am tired of the chronic pain
of the "new knee" healing, all nine inches of incision pain.....along with some current living conditions.

your perspective ( I just read it this early morning) gives me hope and encouragement
You strenght and approach ( going riding) will be my goal and is like a mentor's help.

So thank you and God Bless You and may you find what you need and deserve.
on Sep 17, 2005
Sorry about your pain Trudy. It will improve with time and healing.

We can't always control our situations, but we can control how we choose to react to them.
on Sep 17, 2005
Thanks to all who replied. This was more or less an observation of my current situation.
on Sep 29, 2005

Sorry I am so late to the party, but I understand completely.  I have been in the situation where I thought something was really bad (being laid off), only to realize later it was the best thing to happen to me.

In the end, each situation is good or bad depending upon how we want it to be.

on Sep 29, 2005
Better late than never Guy

You're right, perspective is everything.