High marks for you. How nice to know there are still gentlemen out there who actually judge a female by more than just their body. A negative personality is a real turn off.. male or female. How astute of you to see people as they are protraying themselves, without them really noticing how they come across.

When in Seattle, enjoy the space needle for me... had a very wonderful meal there one evening.. I still think of it fondly... From the appetizer to the dessert, it was all 5 stars!

How nice to know there are still gentlemen out there who actually judge a female by more than just their body.

Thanks. You're new here and just getting to know folks here. What I present in my blogs is who I am, good, bad, and ugly (ok, mostly ugly). I'm not one of those PC asshats who pretend to judge people strictly on their merits. I do assess physical looks as well as personality, but for me the personality is more important than looks. An ugly person is an ugly person. It doesn't mean I won't like them, but I won't pretend they aren't ugly. That applies to physical or personality.

People spend so much time focusing on the surface, they miss out on the interesting and really worthwhile people sometimes.

I'm all for character over looks, any day of the week. There is an excellent lady here at work. She is intelligent, compassionate and has a great laugh and mad, blue eyes. I was talking to her recently and a 'person' I know later asked why I was talking to such an unattractive person. I had no idea who he was talking about until he pointed her out to me. I near smacked him then and there. Some people just don't get it...

People spend so much time focusing on the surface, they miss out on the interesting and really worthwhile people sometimes.

Yeah, and that's a real pity. The most interesting people I know are less than physically beautiful.

Some people just don't get it... dynamaso

Some people are all about the looks. They miss out on most of what the world is all about.

If I were single and at a party mingling with gentlemen, and the room were filled with men ranging from the typically drop dead gorgeous to the flat out drop dead, I'd probably be more attracted to the flat out "drop dead". I guess I've just found that the people who possess more physical attractiveness tend to have less personality, less heart, and tend to be jerks.

On the other hand, when I know someone, and I think they're wonderful, I think they're beautiful or handsome, no matter what they look like physically. They might be Miss America or missing half they're head, but I'll still think they're wonderful.

That's backwards to what the world typically thinks, isn't it? Isn't it supposed to be the other way around?

I've always thought a woman with a nice set of brains is what I would call a "trophy wife". Maybe I'm a glutton for punishment...but I'd like a woman who can hold her own in a conversation with me. Physical beauty will eventually fade...and hell you can fix it if you've got the cash...but as Ron White said, "You can't fix stupid."

~Zoo

That's backwards to what the world typically thinks, isn't it?

No, it's exactly what most of the world pretends to think.

Maybe I'm a glutton for punishment...but I'd like a woman who can hold her own in a conversation with me.

No, and you will find a wife you can love easily and long with that value. Physical beauty is fleeting.  INtelligence is for life.

I've always thought a woman with a nice set of brains is what I would call a "trophy wife"

Same here. Stupidity can wear thin very quickly.

I would say beauty depends the way a person see somebody or something, Something u find beauty I may not and some thing I find it beauty U may not. So there is no driect definition for beauty, all I would say is that something that make U interested.

So in this topic of discussion I would say the bar atteneder is the winner and more beautifull since she makes u happy compared to other two.

real beauty counts for ever where as physical beauty fades with time.

Beauty is in the eye of the beer holder.

Stupidity can wear thin very quickly.

And pert breasts/butts sag, faces gain wrinkles and the body becomes soft. Intelligence only refines with age and conversation becomes much more stimulating.

And pert breasts/butts sag, faces gain wrinkles and the body becomes soft. Intelligence only refines with age and conversation becomes much more stimulating.

hahah this reminds me of a few comments I've picked up over the years....

You know you're old when a pretty girl goes by and your pace maker makes the garage door go up."You know you're old when the gleam in your eye is really the sun in your bifocals.You know you're old when all the names in your little black book end in MD.You know you're old when your back goes out more than you do.You know you're old when your get up and go went up and went......hahahaha


{quote]Beauty is in the eye of the beer holder.

Be careful Mason, you don't fall off your barstool while you enjoy the sights......lol